It has been more that 12 years since the last time i was at Bethany! I have never been back there even once since then (hopefully i will go sometime). I remember some things and i have forgotten some, so i thought it will be a good idea to pen down my memories in a blog post.
In this post, i am intentionally not naming any specific teachers or friends as i can’t mention everyone and i don’t want to leave anyone out…
I was part of Bethany Convent School from class 2nd to 10th. I have some wonderful memories of school. The teachers there literally created the foundation of my life. The quality of teaching was so good that me and all of my classmates never went to tuition class till class 10th! And these days we see school kids in nursery and KG going for tuition classes! The teachers there were top notch and most of them loved teaching! From facebook i know that many of them teach even today…
Although Bethany is a Catholic led school, there were teachers and students who were Hindus, Muslims, Christians and others. I have friends from all the religions and it was always fun to know about their festivals, traditions and customs. We celebrated Eid, Diwali and Christmas with same excitement! There were never any implicit or explicit ways to enforce any religious beliefs on others. Even in the moral science class, we were taught generic life principles while the Christians were separately taught about Bible. Looking at the intolerance in people over small small issues these days, i think Bethany specially created a notion in us that progress as a whole is only possible by taking everyone together ahead as they are without enforcing our beliefs on others!
They knew back then that rote learning is of no use in the long term. I remember, when i was in class 3rd, they was an announcement that from now on in the exams, the questions won’t be just from the questions at the end of the chapter, they can ask anything from the textbook! I remember there was question, “Which is the longest bone in the body?”, it wasn’t there in the pre-defined questions and i didn’t remember the answer and the teacher wrote on my answer sheet that the answer is “Femur” and to study the chapter thoroughly 😀 Even in higher classes, it was never mandatory to answer the questions, exactly as it was taught in class. We could write it in our own words and it would be okay as long as the answer meant the same / similar thing.
Bethany gave me some of the most awesome friends for lifetime! I am not in touch with most of you guys, but i do remember most of you.. From having lunches together, playing games like Basketball, participating in events, interesting discussions in class to just growing up together! You guys made school life fun! 😀
Some of the memories i remember of my school days (it’s a long list in random order)…
- There were just two openings in class 2nd and more than 50 kids had applied! We had a three hour entrance test! Me and one more girl were selected and the school put up our answer sheets on the board to justify to other parents why they took us and not others 😀
- The day i joined, there was some song competition in which the entire class participated and i felt so left out..
- In class 3rd, the two sections were interconnected and there was a door in between. Whenever one section made noise, the teacher from other section would come and say, “why are you making classroom a fishmarket!” 😀
- In class 4th and 5th, when we started writing with ink pen (which was a big deal back then 🙂 ) we were taught to write in cursive the proper way, and i’m sure if you check anyone’s handwriting from my class, it will be nice and beautiful!
- In one class, when the class teacher used to be absent due to some reason, she used to send me detailed notes as to what was to be done in each period, so that we were on track and didn’t waste time. And i liked that kind of responsibility.
- In primary school, we used to discuss freaky Aahat stories (a horror show) in breaks! 😀
- As kids, it was fun for us when teachers used to ask us to bring chalk sticks or to keep the notebooks in the staff room 🙂
- In primary school, we used to quickly finish writing the exams so that we could play with our bench mate till the time is up 😀
- Whenever a teacher was absent, we had a substitute teacher and in primary school we always wished that our substitute teacher was our games teacher or PT Sir so that we could go out and play 😀
- That reminds me of the games class, it started with some basic PT exercises and then we were free to do whatever we wanted. Our games changed over the years… From just running around, Skipping, Hide and Seek, Ice-Water, Kho-Kho, Man in the middle, Kerchief game, Badminton, Table Tennis and Basketball.
- We were divided in houses by color: Red, Green, Blue and Yellow. I was in Blue house and blue was my favorite color. But almost all my friends were in Red house. In our graduating year, Blue house won the best house award 😀
- Specially in classes 8th, 9th and 10th we had some interesting poems in English and Hindi literature and we had some very interesting discussions in class. I don’t remember the exact discussions now, but they are some beautiful memories.
- Parent teacher meeting and result day was a big thing! We were curious what comments we would get in the report card and what our teachers would tell to our parents. Also it was fun to get new books each year and to put covers on it during the vacation. I read all the English and Hindi chapters as stories as soon as we got new books 😀
- In class 10th, slam books were a craze, people filled them up with glitter pens 😀 That reminds me i should look for my slam book somewhere 🙂
- We said prayers atleast three time a day, in the morning assembly, before going for lunch and before going home.
- I was part of the school choir and i was so fun to sing some of those songs! The first song in our song book was “All things bright and beautiful”.
- Our morning assembly had a specific structure: Prayer, Prayer Song, 5 minute meditation, Thought for the day, News Headlines, Message from the Principal, Another Song, Pledge and National Anthem. We had speakers in every class, and on all days, except one day we had morning assembly in the classroom.
- On every Thursday, we had a long meditation session instead of the usual assembly. One of the teachers used to conduct the meditation starting with breathing exercise and then there used to be a long pause. One student used to go to each of the class room around that time with a dhoop (incense stick). The school had a unique clam vibe during those meditation sessions. Our school knew about the benefits of meditation for students before it was a fad!
- The sports day and annual day were so much fun! We used to prepare for it for weeks in advance and it used to be a grand event.
- Celebrating festivals was awesome! We used to have inter house patriotic song competition on Independence and Republic Day. And i still remember how the auditorium used to sound and the overall vibe when 50 kids sang Vande Mataram or Maa Tujhe Salaam or Chhodo kal ki baatein! It literally gave goosebumps!
- For major festivals, we used to have a separate longer morning assembly with related cultural programs like skit, dance and song performance and talks!
- There were boards for each house and there used to be (monthly?) competitions as to which house decorated their house board best!
- Being Secretary in the school cabinet and then winning the Best Cabinet Member award are some of the memories i cherish! One of my responsibilities was to conduct morning assembly everyday.
- Our school library was a cool place and it was stacked with books! Those days i was a huge Enid Blyton fan and read Famous Five, Secret Seven, Adventure Series and Malory Tower series. Later i read some of the classics here. We used to have one library period per week when we had to issue and return books. However one week was too long for me, i used to gulp down these books in a day or two! 😀 During summer vacations, one special request, i used to get multiple books issued to read over the vacation.
- We were so competitive during school days, and i guess that’s why i got it so much ingrained in me. After exams, we could never wait till the result day to know our rank in class. So around 10 students in our class, each created a table with person wise and subject wise marks. We updated the table when we got the marks of any subject. Finally we totalled it out to calculate relative rank and percentage! I mean seriously! 😀 Just like it is prohibited to reveal salary details in corporate, it should be prohibited to reveal marks to others in school 😀
- In class 9th biology, when we had the plant and animal kingdom hierarchies and weird names and it involved so much of memorization! That’s when i decided i won’t take Biology after 10th.
- In mid school, our science notebooks had the left page blank and the right page was ruled. We used to draw the related drawings on the blank page. I was really good a drawing from plant details, organisms like amoeba to digestive system. Getting a good, very good or excellent for a drawing used to be a big deal 😀
- Till primary school we had Art and Craft class where we learnt drawing and making origami. From secondary school it was converted to SUPW, where boys learnt painting and girls learnt a variety of stuff like different stitches, knitting etc. I started with these things but sometimes it was difficult for me complete them as it needed a lot of patience and repetitive work 😀 So finally i used to seek my mom’s help 😉
- Those days i could write really nice essays with relevant quotes on a variety of topics very fast. I have hardly written in hindi after school, i hope i haven’t forgotten the script!
- Our campus was awesome! There were huge neem trees all around. A huge ground to play. A big auditorium. And spacious well lit classes with big windows! A seat near a door or window was treasured 😀 There were benches under the neem trees all around the ground and that’s where we chilled in our games period and lunch breaks. The red and white brick building had a charm of its own!
- Eagles used to circle over the ground during lunch breaks and would sweep down to pick up a fallen chappati.
- Our class was very united. At no cost did anyone rat out others, we faced the consequences of our mischiefs and pranks together 😀
- Every group had a specific place for lunch. And it was fun to discuss stuff and have lunch together! In primary school, we were in a hurry to finish lunch as soon as possible so that we could play.
- We had to make thermocol models in classes 10th and i remember i had created sulphur extraction cut out and reproduction in amoeba cut out myself! It came out really well, and all these models by each one of us were put up in the labs.
- Science labs were cool! From looking at things under a microscope, creating a herbarium file classifying leaves, experiments like titration to doing experiments with lenses and prisms it was always so exciting!
- The motto of our school was Love and Service 🙂 And the logo is below:
- We had an yearly school magazine, and we submitted articles and poems which were shoristed and included in it.
- Visiting Sisters who stayed in the convent on Christmas, admiring the crib they decorated and relishing the Christmas special cake was fun!
- We dressed our best on yearly class photo shoots with ironed shirts, blazers and polished shoes. Now it is so fun to look at our own and our friends’ younger versions in those photos 😀
- After entering the school, there are two trees, the left one was planted in front of us on some occasion.
- All around the school, there were boards with inspiring quotes written. Just near the stairs near the KG section was the quote – “Great minds discuss ideas, Average minds discuss events, Small minds discuss people.” One needed to just walk around the school to get inspired!
- Once a week, we had to wear white dress in school. It was fun to wear our house t-shirts on that day. The school looked very colorful and bright. Also sometimes white shoes were checked and it was required that the white shoes are white and clean. We had chalk pieces to our rescue in such cases 😀
- It was so exciting to take part in a variety of events. In class 3rd, I wore saree for the whole day with such ease, where we were showing how people in different states of India dressed! Our team went till the state final in Indian Science Congress in class 7th where we created a project on importance of nutrition. In a science demo, I presented metal ball rolling in a loop to show centrifugal force.
- In primary and mid school we used to have dictation test to make sure our spellings were correct. There were separate grammar books in English and Hindi. Thus now, mostly our spellings are correct and our grammar is good and we cringe when someone makes such kind of spelling / grammatical mistakes.
- Sanskrit was a difficult language to learn. And if you didn’t understand it correctly, then a lot of memorization was required! Still remember – ti, taha, anti 😂
Overall, Bethany Convent School was an awesome school! We knew this back then too, but in hindsight it is even more evident.. I have some of the most precious memories of this place! Had some of the most amazing teachers who loved teaching and were actually interested in shaping us and cared for our well being. Made some amazing friends for lifetime whom i can always reach out to even though i might not be in regular touch with them.
Thanks Bethany for being an ideal school that a kid needs as a foundation for life!
I wish i was not in a hurry to grow up back then, probably would have had some more fun in school then! They say school days are the best and most carefree and fun days of our life, but then, kids in school don’t know that when they are in school!
- My friends from Bethany, please feel free to add some of your memories of Bethany school days in the comments.
- All pics except the first one are from BCS website.