Daily Prompt: Say Your Name – Jayati

Jayati : Winner

My parents decided to name me Jayati when i won the first battle of my life. I was an underweight, ¬†premature baby. By God’s grace and care of my parents and elders i survived and thus won that battle. That’s how i was named “Jayati”. My parents wanted me to successfully win all the battles of my life ahead, to face the challenges bravely and to stand out as a winner. I have tried to do my best to achieve this aim till now. Everyone faces challenges and crossroads in life and i started facing them since the day i was born. So i guess i have more experience now than my peers ūüėÄ

Although Shakespeare said that What is there in a name ? i believe that a lot is there in a name. Name is our identity. It is how we are known to others. I have also analyzed that in most cases one can find the traits of characteristics of name in people. For e.g. people whose names are related to music are usually good musicians or singers, people who are named after gods or goddesses are usually successful, people whose names mean beautiful are usually pretty. This is not the case all the time but as per my interaction its mostly true.

I just love my name. Actually speaking i am proud of it. I love my parents for giving me this name. I have tens of nicknames but my actual first name “Jayati” is my favorite. I like its sound. I like its spelling. I like it in every possible way. I like that it begins with the letter 10th letter J. Thus i will never change my name !

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Book Review – Half a Rupee Stories

Half-a-Rupee-Stories-by-Gulzar

Half a Rupee Stories is a book written by Gulzar and translated by Sunjoy Shekhar. If you have ever heard a song written by Gulzar then i am sure you must be his fan ! He is a world renowned poet, lyricist and director. The language used by him is simple and easy to understand and most of all it has the power to touch the heart.

Half a Rupee Stories is a collection of 25 short stories. I will say that it is a collection of 25 gems. Each story touches the heart and leaves a message for the soul. It has real life lessons learned after years of experience. Some stories are filled with suspense and thrill while others highlight the various issues faced in life in a unique way. It has real life stories of Javed Akthar (his nick-name is Jaadu :)), Sahir Ludhianvi and Kuldip Nayyar. Many locations of the stories are located around the border regions. There are also some stories of  Mumbai. The best thing which i liked about this book is that it shows us how to find a bigger and higher meaning from our daily experiences. It shows how to look at life from a broader perspective. Thus i will say that this book is a must-read !

All the stories in a line –

  1. A story based of faith, trust and miracle.
  2. How 100 rupees changed someone’s life !
  3. A story of friendship.
  4. A story of slum for the perspective of the people living there.
  5. Rain and flood.
  6. A boat-cleaner can also be a king.
  7. A glimpse of the life of the people who live on the footpath.
  8. Connection across LoC.
  9. “Over”
  10. All for a ram fight !
  11. Hilsa fish and the newspaper headline.
  12. How wars affect lives and souls !
  13. Story from paradise-Kashmir.
  14. A freedom fighter’s life.
  15. A swayamwar.
  16. “Half a Rupee”
  17. God is a superman.
  18. Love story between a bird and a kite.
  19. Lessons from an orange.
  20. Earthquake.
  21. Shortcut, an accident, fate.
  22. The biggest pickpocket.
  23. Grandparents love.
  24. Grandpa’s love for grandchild.
  25. The transformation.

Weekly Photo Challenge: Pattern

This week the Weekly Photo¬†Challenge¬†was to present my interpretation of “Pattern”

Luckily i got to see so many patters in nature this week.

Have a look and enjoy ūüôā

So many shades of blue ūüôā
See the sun’s rays out of these clouds
A Natural Cloudy Heart
Sea or Sky ???
The green pattern of a leaf
Designer Bark
Krishna Kamal or Passion Flower

I could not choose one out of these ūüôā

Which one did you like the most ???

Self Esteem vs Ego

Angel vs Demon

Ego can be defined as the feeling of “self”. I don’t think ego is bad. Ego is just knowing the difference between ourselves and others. As the popular quote by Aristotle goes –¬†‚ÄúKnowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.‚Ä̬†Everyone must have a sense of self-respect and self-esteem. Without these two qualities, the world starts extracting unjust benefits from us in every possible way, which is not good. Also its a big gift to know one’s self-worth. However when this ego is boosted more and more, a person starts having a superiority complex by which he starts feeling that he is superior that everyone else. And this may include one’s parents, teachers, elders and other wise people. And i think this is where the problem begins. So further, lets consider ego in its extreme form and analyze it.

Due to highly egoistic attitude, people start taking things for granted. They consider that they are the kings and queens of the world and even start behaving like that. And worst of all, they also expect others to treat them in the same way ! I can say that such attitude is highly¬†detrimental specially for students. If students consider themselves the master, then there is no way in which ¬†their master (teacher/Guru) can give them knowledge. As they say, how can a teacher fill a cup when it is already full. Socrates said, ‚ÄúThe only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing.‚Ä̬†We need to ¬†empty our cups before comings to our Gurus. And believe me there is nothing wrong or¬†embarrassing¬†about it. Its always good to make a fresh new start.

Its always good to be respectful and humble. ¬†Our elders may not be always correct (they are also humans like us) but we must always remember that they have more wisdom than us because of their experience. They have seen more life than us and i am sure there cannot be a better teacher than life. We must not always blindly agree with what others say, but at the same time we must have faith and respect in them. We must not confront them rudely however we must be able to express our views to them. They are our well-wishers and work towards our best¬†interests. So instead of disrespecting others, i feel that it is always better to look at the positive aspects of others and try to inculcate those qualities in ourselves. ¬†After all who are we to judge others. I think if we feel the urge to judge someone then we should rather judge ourselves. An awesome thought i heard today which made me think all this is – “Even the cow gives milk only when you sit down near its feet on your knees, and not when you ride on its back.”

There is a very fine line between self-esteem (the angel) and ego¬†(the demon). ¬†Only the smart ones can see the difference between these. This is the thing which we need to master. If we can determine whether our actions will boost our ego or our self-esteem then we can consider ourselves to be “wise”.¬†To the ones who want to be wise, here is a quote by Confucius which i like a lot –
“By three methods we may learn wisdom:
First, by reflection, which is noblest;
Second, by imitation, which is easiest;
and third by experience, which is the bitterest.‚ÄĚ
I think is some cases its wise to learn from others¬†experience¬†as well. I consider myself blessed to have such parents and teachers who always encourage me to express my views and at the same time argue and stand for my views. “Lucky me !” ūüôā

On a lighter note here is a news flash !
“The earth revolves around the sun. This might upset a few out there who still think that the world revolves around them.” ūüėČ