Making friends :-)

We all love to have friends ! One can never stop making friends. The friend list always grows on and on. Old friends are treasured and new ones are made. In this way life goes on …

Have you noticed how sometimes we like the company of some people. These people are our favorites. We like to talk to them, to be in touch with them and to interact with them. Time just flies in their company. One never gets bored. I thought about it and finally found out its reason. It’s due to the positive aura around them. One can actually feel it !

Although opposites attract in science in case of people usually its the opposite ! In this case it’s mostly that the likes attract. So we enjoy the company of people who think like us, have similar interests like us or may do things like us ! Although it’s not a rule as some people may also have friends of opposite nature !

Let me come back to the point. However after considering all these issues finally its the positivity that wins the race ! Even if a person is similar to us or has similar interests it’s of no use if he or she has a negative outlook. It’s no fun to be around such people. They always see the negative side of things. They tend to discourage and demoralize others. On the other hand people with positive energy are a great fun to be with. They are always motivating. We like to spend time with them.

So next time when you are on a look out for making new friends stress more on positive attitude instead of a person who is merely like you. Because after all its going to affect our life as well ! Our personality is defined by the company we keep. So if we a surrounded by people who have a positive attitude then even our outlook will change !

Before expecting anything thing from others firstly we must implement it. As they say first do what you preach ! So firstly let’s make our own attitude “positive”. Lets focus on the bright side of things. Lets see the glass half full. Lets try to create a positive and energetic aura around ourselves. And then as i previously said – likes attract. So it will no more be difficult to find positive people with similar interests.  So lets not give up! Lets keep the search ON !!!

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2 comments on “Making friends :-)

  1. Kam says:

    Very nicely written.

    As per your blog, you still are a student of engineering, etc… – I must appreciate your mom and dad for feeding you with values and positive energies! I see ‘Live, Let live’ attitude and it is good. Keep that up.

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